A Beginners Guide to Strap On Sex & Pegging

A Beginners Guide to Strap On Sex & Pegging

The idea of being pegged can seem a bit wild and outrageous, but let me tell you, it's so much fun! Pegging is on the rise again, and we are here for it. The wonderful world of strap-on sex is trending once again.

We know some of you might feel a little bit lost. That’s okay! We’ll break everything down for you so you can start pegging away! So, let’s get right to it!

So, what is pegging?

Pegging refers to when a woman uses a strap-on dildo and penetrates her partner anally. To hell with all the gender things, we are all free to enjoy a good pegging whenever you feel like it, regardless of your genitals or sexual orientation.

Dan Savage, a sex advice columnist, coined the term back in 2001, but you'll be surprised to know that human beings have been “pegging” each other as far as ancient Egypt and Greece.

What do you need to get started?

For those ready to play, whether you are a newbie or pro, it's better to come prepared using the right tools (lube & sex toys). Luckily for you, we've got you covered. Here's what you'll need:

1. Harness:

For peggers, you can either select a harness that resembles an adjustable strap-on or a traditional underwear harness that will put you in total control of the action. Get our classic adjustable strap on harness from as little as N$249.00

2. Dildo:

If you’re a newbie, we suggest starting small. We highly recommend a smaller-sized silicone dildo; as it gets more comfortable, you can slowly work your way up by experimenting with medium or large sizes. Find your Realistic Suction Cup TPE Dildo from N$299.00

3. Lube:

With anal play, there is nothing like too much lube. Silicone-based lube is the best choice because it has staying power, but some of these lubes may break down silicone toys over time. You know what won't? Slick, a silicone-based lube that's safe to use with silicone toys. Water-based lubes are also a great option. Shop our range of Personal Lubricants from N$69

4. Vibrator:

For the ‘dare-devils’ who want extra stimulation, LOL! This would involve the use of a vibrating dildo that can be strapped on to a harness. Keep your eyes peeled for our new vibrating dildo coming soon.

Add the harness, dildo and lube to your cart now to qualify for 10% off your purchase! If the code is not automatically applied at checkout use: "PEGGINGKIT" to redeem. The discount will only be activated once all items have been added to your cart.

Which is the best pegging position and most comfortable?

This ultimately boils down to the needs and preferences of both you and your partner. There are three main types of pegging positions worth trying out.

  • Doggy Style 
  • Reverse Lap Dance
  • Anal Missionary

Pegging risks

I know, I know! I might be a party pooper, but it is better to be informed of the risks to be better prepared. One of the significant risks that come with pegging is injuring your rectum. To avoid that, use lots of lube and thoroughly cleanse your anal toys after action. Do those two things, and the risks will be significantly lowered.

Another minimal risk is seeing poo while in there; that's to be expected with kinky sex. Just to be safe, empty your bowel beforehand. For those who like that squeaky clean feel, this douche is the best choice! Use lukewarm water or a saline enema solution to flush out your rectum and eliminate the 'ick' factor from your anal sesh.

Cum-clusion

As exciting as it may seem, pegging isn’t everyone’s cup of tea. If you don’t want to receive it anally, there is no shame in that. There are plenty of ways to pleasure yourself. But, for those who are ready for some anal play, take your time and communicate with your partner. Cheers!

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